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Barbara Rohde's avatar

As an Australian adoptee who found her biological parents before the laws were changed here, I find this absolutely unbelievable and totally unacceptable in 2025. Most adoptees regard it as a human right to know their identity which is why the laws were changed in the first place. Why would they perpetuate this injustice when DNA tests are widely available ? It makes no sense to me.

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Claire Kaahu White's avatar

There is absolutely a problem with these social workers, specifically their (lack of) training and ability. When I first started the drawn-out and stressful process to access my S23 file I realised that I had to play their game. Firstly I needed the reason, the 'special grounds'. That was relatively straightforward, lucky for me there were two different dates of birth, one on my original birth certificate and the other on the social worker's report. Then I had to speak with a social worker from OT. I live in Northland and was automatically directed to the Auckland office. That first social worker did not seem to have a clue what I was talking about and kept making weirdly inappropriate jokes about my birth father being 'John Key or Donald Trump' and that they had a duty to protect him which was offensive on so many levels. I ended up pushing pause after that until I read on a Fb page that the Christchurch office had more empathetic staff. As I was adopted in Christchurch I decided to try again and it was a very different story. The social worker I spoke with knew what I was talking about. Within a few months I was able to view my complete, unredacted file. In the end the file had more about my adoptive parents than anyone else, however that is not the point. As your article notes as adults we should all have a human-right to this information.

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