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Alison Ingram's avatar

And this...more of my critical analysis re: the language of Adoption and the failure of the INDUSTRY to acknowledge the harm done to millions - millions of mothers and babies - worldwide. This woman (Clothier) has much for which to answer.

'In 1943, American child psychiatrist Florence Clothier was the first in her field to claim trauma

is common to all “adoptees”. She argues those who grow up without knowing their parents or

any of their blood-kin have ‘lost the thread of family continuity’ (p. 222). She asserts our ‘deep

identification...with our forebears’ is originally experienced ‘in the mother-child relationship’

and it is our relationship to our mothers which provides us with ‘our most fundamental

security’. Clothier writes...

... every adopted child at some point in his development, has been deprived of

this primitive relationship with his mother. This trauma and the severing of

the individual from his racial antecedents lie at the core of what is peculiar to

the psychology of the adopted child. The adopted child presents all the

complications in social and emotional development seen in the own child. But

the ego of the adopted child, in addition to all the normal demands made upon

it, is called upon to compensate for the wound left by the loss of the biological

[sic] mother. Later on this appears as an unknown void, separating the adopted

child from his fellows whose blood ties bind them to the past as well as to the

future (pp. 222 - 223).

At first Clothier seems to empathise with the adopted child’s loss of ‘his mother’ but then,

according to her training and profession, she diagnoses the “adoptee” with a wounded ego and

turns to what her readers need to know about their patients. At one fell swoop, after

identifying the lifelong impact of separation trauma, the adopted child is defined as needing

assistance to compensate for the loss of ‘the biological mother’.

Clothier was influential in the training of mid-twentieth century adoption industry workers. She played a significant role in the development of the twentieth century adoption system – that is, implementation of the“clean-break” theory as maternity hospital policy and practice. Adoption industry workers’ training was ‘aimed at making it possible for mothers ‘to give up her baby’ and to “help” single mothers better ‘understand their neurosis’, even if that involved ‘suffering for the patient or the risk of untoward results’ (Clothier, 1941, p. 584, as cited by Cole, 2008, p. 16).'

So, the trauma and damage done has been known - from the beginning of modern Adoption legislation which developed and allowed the systemic theft of millions of new-born human beings from their mothers and families.

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Robert A Hafetz's avatar

The mistake all f their poor research makes is they still believe an infant is tabula rasa. The fact is infants can make long term memory and will record a trauma when separated from the mother. This trauma drives the behavior and emotional problems we see later in life.

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